• Full retreat experience
• Facilitated sessions
• Camping
• Materials and resources
Many men arrive feeling disconnected from purpose, carrying everything alone, or wondering why achievement still feels incomplete. They know something deeper is calling, but haven't found the space to listen.
This retreat creates that space—to step away from the noise, reconnect with what matters, and remember who you're here to be.
The Kingdom Within is a retreat of remembering—an opportunity to step away from the noise and reconnect with what matters most. Through nature, brotherhood, and honest reflection, you'll gain greater clarity, purpose, and direction for the road ahead.
These three days are designed to help you step away from the noise and reconnect with what’s real
✓ Men seeking deeper purpose and direction
✓ Men ready to lead themselves and others
✓ Men in transition or at a crossroads
✓ Men committed to personal growth and brotherhood
✓ Men's circles and facilitated group sessions
✓ Guided wilderness experiences and tent camping
✓ Fire ceremonies and evening reflection
✓ Breathwork and nervous system regulation
✓ Solo time in nature for reflection and clarity
✓ Honest connection, accountability, and brotherhood
✓ Purpose and direction-setting exercises
Paul Widman is the founder of Soul Guided Men and has spent years guiding men through transformational group experiences, retreats, leadership development, and one-on-one coaching. Known for his direct yet compassionate approach, Paul helps men break through the patterns that keep them stuck and reconnect with purpose, integrity, and authentic leadership. His work blends practical accountability with deep personal inquiry, creating powerful experiences that lead to lasting change.
Eli Goodsell is the Executive Director of the Big Chico Creek Ecological Reserve and a nationally recognized leader in land stewardship, conservation, and eco-cultural restoration. A California-certified prescribed fire burn boss, he has worked alongside Tribal Nations and conservation organizations to support the return of ancestral lands and advance Indigenous stewardship practices. A trusted mentor, long-time member of Paul Widman's original men's group, and co-facilitator for Soul Guided Men retreats, Eli brings wisdom, grounded leadership, and a deep connection to the natural world.
The men who attend don't just leave with memories. They leave with greater clarity, deeper connection, and a renewed sense of purpose.
Men's Retreat was an incredible weekend for men coming together to grow through vulnerability. I experienced a powerful connection to nature, a beautiful connection with other men, and a love that's hard to put into words. This work is so important for building future leaders—men who can hold space for one another, laugh together, cry together, and grow together. I came home changed, and my wife and family noticed. If you know there's more in life you're being called toward, both for yourself and for others, I can't recommend this experience enough.
I've been on two of Paul's weekend men's retreats, and both have accelerated my personal growth. Ironically, the acceleration came from an intentional slowing down. Through Paul's leadership, alongside his co-leader Eli, I was able to let the noise of everyday life drop away long enough to actually meet myself. I discovered parts of myself I'm proud of and want to hold onto, and parts I'm grateful for while also realizing it was time for them to grow and mature. I'd highly recommend Paul's retreats to any man who wants to find out what's really happening behind his everyday masks.
The Kingdom Within is an invitation to step away from the noise and reconnect with what matters most.
Every application is personally reviewed by Paul. If the retreat feels aligned, he'll reach out to connect before confirming your participation.
• Full retreat experience
• Facilitated sessions
• Camping
• Materials and resources
