Return to What Holds You Steady

Step away from the pressure to constantly perform, produce, and push forward. This one-day gathering invites men to slow down, reconnect with what matters, and move through life with greater clarity and intention.
A Day of Grounding and Brotherhood
NOV 14, 2026
Mt.Shasta , CA
INVESTMENT:
$149

• Guided group sessions
• Grounding and reflection practices
• Shared meal
• Materials and resources

ABOUT THIS EXPERIENCE

Step Out of the Noise

Modern life asks men to carry a lot—responsibility, expectations, pressure, and the constant demand to keep moving. The Grounded Man creates space to slow down and notice what has been lost beneath the noise. Through guided reflection, honest conversation, and shared experience, you’ll reconnect with the values, relationships, and commitments that matter most.

THE INVITATION

Strength Without the Performance

This is not about becoming someone new. It is about stripping away the pressure to perform and returning to a steadier way of being. Together, we’ll explore what it means to lead, connect, and move forward from a place of presence rather than pressure.

what you'll experience

A Day to Reconnect and Reset

These three days are designed to help you step away from the noise and reconnect with what’s real

01

Brotherhood

Sit with other men in honest conversation. Be seen, challenged, and supported.
02

Nature

Step away from the noise and reconnect with yourself through the wisdom of the wilderness.
03

Transformation

Face the stories keeping you stuck and commit to the man you want to become.
04

Purpose

Leave with a clear direction and the next steps that matter most.
who is this for
  • Men feeling stretched thin by work, family, or responsibility
  • Those moving through a season of transition or uncertainty
  • Men who feel disconnected from themselves or what matters most
  • Those seeking stronger, more honest relationships with other men
  • Men wanting greater clarity around their next chapter
  • Anyone ready to slow down, reflect, and move forward with intention
  • inside the retreat
  • Guided reflection and grounding practices
  • Facilitated conversations with other men
  • Time outdoors and away from everyday distractions
  • Shared meals and intentional connection
  • Practical exercises for clarity and direction
  • Space to define meaningful next steps
  • Meet the Men Guiding This Experience

    Together, Paul and Eli combine decades of experience in men's work, leadership, wilderness-based learning, and land stewardship.

    Paul Widman

    FOUNDER & LEAD FACILITATOR

    Paul Widman is the founder of Soul Guided Men and has spent years guiding men through transformational group experiences, retreats, leadership development, and one-on-one coaching. Known for his direct yet compassionate approach, Paul helps men break through the patterns that keep them stuck and reconnect with purpose, integrity, and authentic leadership. His work blends practical accountability with deep personal inquiry, creating powerful experiences that lead to lasting change.

    what men are saying

    Real Men. Real Stories. Real Change.

    The men who attend don't just leave with memories. They leave with greater clarity, deeper connection, and a renewed sense of purpose.

    Men's Retreat was an incredible weekend for men coming together to grow through vulnerability. I experienced a powerful connection to nature, a beautiful connection with other men, and a love that's hard to put into words. This work is so important for building future leaders—men who can hold space for one another, laugh together, cry together, and grow together. I came home changed, and my wife and family noticed. If you know there's more in life you're being called toward, both for yourself and for others, I can't recommend this experience enough.

    I've been on two of Paul's weekend men's retreats, and both have accelerated my personal growth. Ironically, the acceleration came from an intentional slowing down. Through Paul's leadership, alongside his co-leader Eli, I was able to let the noise of everyday life drop away long enough to actually meet myself. I discovered parts of myself I'm proud of and want to hold onto, and parts I'm grateful for while also realizing it was time for them to grow and mature. I'd highly recommend Paul's retreats to any man who wants to find out what's really happening behind his everyday masks.

    THE NEXT STEP

    INVESTMENT:
    $149

    • Guided group sessions
    • Grounding and reflection practices
    • Shared meal
    • Materials and resources

    NOV 14, 2026
    Mt.Shasta , CA

    A few details to help us begin the conversation.
    Limited to 16 Men
    This experience is intentionally kept small to create space for honest conversation, meaningful connection, and genuine brotherhood.
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    FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
    WHAT HAPPENS NEXT
    After you submit your application, Paul will personally review it and reach out to connect. If the experience is a good fit, you’ll receive next steps to confirm your participation
    1. APPLY
    Submit your application
    2. REVIEW
    Paul personally reviews every application
    3. CONNECT
    Paul will reach out to connect
    4. CONFIRMATON
    If aligned, you’ll receive next steps to join.
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